Wife said she married me out of pity – Nigerian complains
A man from Nigeria on social media spoke about the harsh words his wife said to him during the breakup.
According to a man who appears to be peaceful, his wife called him disabled and told him that she married him out of pity.
Read his full story:
“Let me first tell you about my personality type. To make me angry, you need to repeat the offense more than 30-40 times. After each insult, I just gave you a facial expression that let you know that you offended me. And I’ll make sure you understand the message.
So the wife repeated the same crime. I told her that I didn’t like what she was doing. She said it would do, but she kept repeating the same thing. When I got bored, I tried to get revenge. My only retaliation is that I stopped being at home. I left the house very early in the morning and returned late in the evening.
I would go on business to another city and return in 4 days. You know that nothing prevents me from returning home from another city every day, because I have transport. She flushed. I started calling relatives, I mistreat her. They asked her how I mistreated her … she said that I was avoiding our house. Relatives asked me if I was beating her or starving her. She said no.
I know why it hurt so much. If she wants to pee outside, I’ll leave her there. When she is finished, she will call me, and I will follow her again.
She is a woman who always solves fights for couples on the street. So he never wanted anyone to hear that we were forty in the house. He doesn’t want people to come to our house to resolve disputes. So it always prolongs our struggle.
When he couldn’t take it anymore, he sent me a message saying: I DON’T WANT TO DIVER YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR DISABILITY IN THE BEGINNING, HOW I LIKE. BUT NOW THIS IS THE END. YOU MUST ACKNOWLEDGE THE IMPACT OF YOUR ACTIONS FOR ME ALL THESE YEARS. WHAT I DID WITH JUJU-EVIL IN THE FIRST DEGREE.
Let me analyze these words in capital letters for you. I have a disability, but you won’t notice it easily until you speak to me. She said that I should be responsible for my actions towards her … in hindsight, I did incredible things to make her happy. I even saved her life when she did not want blood transfusions from unknown people because of her Christian belief that it is impossible to contract demons from the blood of unknown people.
Fortunately, I have a universal donor blood type. This means that I can donate blood to anyone. Note that she never did anything remarkable for me except to give birth to our children. Talking about how to be juju, I will tell you how it happened: someone was going to give birth to his family, and the baby was in breech position.
She asked my advice and I told her that if I took the woman to the village, my uncle would give her a mixture to turn the tide. Her belief is the opposite, but since someone on her side had just given birth through CS, which almost led to the death of the mother and child, she asked me to take the woman to the village. The shutter position was reversed. I’m surprised he now called me juju.
Instead of taking her message personally, I urged her to please myself. This infuriated her even more. Instead of leaving me, he invited someone to intervene, tracked me down to the second city and was placed there.
My problem now is that these words are still ringing in my head … someone I thought was a lover said they had married me out of pity. “